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First world problems.

One Response to “First world problems.”

1. Audwyn Says:
   April 8th, 2022 at 1:41 am

   And now along with all the other things…. Now we dont talk about bruno…. or systemic familial brutality surrounding obligation and missing the mark on the way to genuine gratitude… come on, yall were so close when the maladaptive mechanisms were built to “prevent” the family from breaking up due to “lack of interest” or other reasons and excuses.
   like, I get the need for social groups and interdependence and to require others to show up in certain ways (trad, behaviors, values, culture, especially guess culture where one must guess at what another wants in order to “prove” that one actually loves the other) before acceptance will occur…
   We do not have systemic generational trauma that informs a perpetuation of non consent/ consent violations being normalized in so many ways… most folk think I am crazy when i talk about how subtle a consent violation can be and they think those “benign” violations dont matter bc “everyone” does it…
   and!!! its all one more thing that contributes to the multiple interrelated systemic crisis.

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